Re:Ask HN: What have the past 12 months taught you?
by ManuelKiessling on Friday July 19, 2019 @07:28PM
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Before you were a competitive dancer, you were not a competitive dancer.
Before you are not shy, you are shy.
Just as you‘ve learned to become a competitive dancer, you can learn to become a non-shy person.
The bad news is that it’s probably a lot of work. But so was becoming a competitive dancer, I assume.
Look for a professional who can professionally help you learn what you need to learn.
I‘m well aware that my comment might feel very arrogant. But I’m making it in a certain spirit: Long ago, someone told me that what we all really need is someone who tells us that we must do what we can do.
Before you are not shy, you are shy.
Just as you‘ve learned to become a competitive dancer, you can learn to become a non-shy person.
The bad news is that it’s probably a lot of work. But so was becoming a competitive dancer, I assume.
Look for a professional who can professionally help you learn what you need to learn.
I‘m well aware that my comment might feel very arrogant. But I’m making it in a certain spirit: Long ago, someone told me that what we all really need is someone who tells us that we must do what we can do.