Re:America’s urban rebirth is missing actual births
by tathougies on Friday July 19, 2019 @10:58AM
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Sorry let me rephrase. If she would like to work and me stay at home id be happy with that. Children are work but they are by far the most important.
As a child I wanted to be a stay at home dad, which i realize makes me somewhat odd, but we are odd people
Re:America’s urban rebirth is missing actual births
by watwut on Friday July 19, 2019 @03:16PM
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Gotcha now. Maybe you will be able to switch for some time at least.
Re:America’s urban rebirth is missing actual births
by tathougies on Friday July 19, 2019 @06:25PM
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My wife and I are working towards financial independence so we can both stay home / work from home part time.
Re:America’s urban rebirth is missing actual births
by tathougies on Friday July 19, 2019 @10:56AM
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Sorry let me rephrase. If she would like to work and me stay at home id be happy with that. Children are work but they are by far the most important
I mean, this is just not true, you know. Being with babies whole day every day is not fun for overwhelming majority of adults, neither male nor female. They may see meaning in it, but like, fun it is not. And it definitely is not easy fun when you are on fourth or fifth baby, meaning care about siblings too.
Also, managing both 5 kids and full time job would be pretty hard even if good daycare is available. Your "she can go to work because she has college" completely ignores logistics of it and expectations on software engineers these days.