Re:The Trans History of the Wild West
by iguy on Thursday July 04, 2019 @08:30AM
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It would depend on context, if you ask me. The bank robbery was across the street & half a block down? Completely unremarkable to say "they". The clerk is complaining about sexual harassment, hand on thigh? Avoiding "he" implies a careful choice not to say, either to hide an identity, or because the customer was obviously confusingly gender-ambiguous.
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Re:The Trans History of the Wild West
by silveroriole on Thursday July 04, 2019 @09:32AM
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I interpreted “they” in the second one as implying distance from the person in question, like the speaker wants nothing to do with them and is emphasising that they were a stranger. Possibly part of why saying “they” feels uncomfortable to people, but I’d never realised it until reading that example.
Re:The Trans History of the Wild West
by ryanmercer on Thursday July 04, 2019 @09:53AM
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In my case if I don't know someone well, or at all, without thought I use gender-neutral terminology they/them/their and with pets and babies, again without thought, I naturally use it.