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Re:I’ve Picked My Job over My Kids by lotsofpulp on Sunday June 30, 2019 @01:21AM (#20316500)
I had immigrant parents who had to work all the time to build and grow their business, so I didn’t have birthdays and that kind of stuff. I don’t care about that kind of stuff at all, not to say that I hate it or anything.

I haven’t studied other children, so I can only make statements about myself. The only negative of my childhood regarding the lack of birthdays and whatnot is the inability to feign excitement for others’ celebrations as much as might be expected, simply because I don’t care about it for myself in the first place. It probably has hampered my ability to socialize or make networking connections in some situations where I wasn’t able to fit in.

Re:I’ve Picked My Job over My Kids by pergadad on Sunday June 30, 2019 @04:01AM (#20316993)
Be happy that others are happy. That's the key to empathy and sharing the pleasure. You don't have to understand why they are happy, and you don't have to agree with the cause. But you can still find joy in the fact that others are feeling wonderful.
Re:I’ve Picked My Job over My Kids by lotsofpulp on Sunday June 30, 2019 @06:40AM (#20317525)
Yes, I wish I had learned that earlier.
Re:I’ve Picked My Job over My Kids by tomp on Sunday June 30, 2019 @04:22AM (#20317047)
I had a wonderful childhood (by normal standards) and my famiy celebrated all birthdays (includig mine)... but I still don’t care :)