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Re:Suicide Rates Among Adolescents and Young Adults in the U... by mrfredward on Monday June 24, 2019 @11:06AM (#20264246)
I rarely see others mention it but I have a pet theory that grade inflation makes school more stressful. When A's are expected, a single bad day can easily sink a semester of effort. Additionally, as you say, grades don't leave much room for students to distinguish themselves positively anymore. Student have little room to excel, but every day is a chance to screw up.
Re:Suicide Rates Among Adolescents and Young Adults in the U... by dgabriel on Monday June 24, 2019 @12:15PM (#20265092)
My son is a junior now in a very competitive high school, and they had to do away with valedictorian/salutatorian because the difference between that and, say, just top 5% would be a 99.6 vs a 99.4 in one class in the 10th grade. It was so stressful for these kids, like it even fucking matters long term.
Re:Suicide Rates Among Adolescents and Young Adults in the U... by saalweachter on Monday June 24, 2019 @01:49PM (#20266304)
I'd like to add to this.

For people who burn out in high school, that's usually your first experience with it. The first time is always the worst, whether it happens in high school, college, or on the job.

Once you've already burned out once in high school, twice in college (once before and once after switching your major), and hit your breaking point at a job or two (regardless of whether you switch jobs, or careers, or just take a long vacation, or just spend six months kind of just putting in time at your job before you're ready to really try again) ... well, burning out still sucks, but you kind of get used to it, you know how to deal with it, and you know that eventually you're going to pick yourself up again.

But man, that first time, you really feel like a failure, like you're never going to amount to anything, and like you'll never be able to try again.

Re:Suicide Rates Among Adolescents and Young Adults in the U... by SolaceQuantum on Monday June 24, 2019 @12:29PM (#20265279)
The narrative is that it does matter long term- it supposedly defines which college you get into.
Re:Suicide Rates Among Adolescents and Young Adults in the U... by jandrese on Monday June 24, 2019 @12:55PM (#20265623)
The biggest advantage to getting into an elite school is the networking. If your kid is making friends with the children of board members of Fortune 500 companies then they have a chance at the big leagues. Otherwise they're just clawing their way up to middle management like every other schmuck.

Of course even then it's a total crapshoot, but there's very little chance of that panning out in the state school.

Re:Suicide Rates Among Adolescents and Young Adults in the U... by ravenstine on Monday June 24, 2019 @03:50PM (#20267716)
> The biggest advantage to getting into an elite school is the networking. If your kid is making friends with the children of board members of Fortune 500 companies then they have a chance at the big leagues.

I wonder how the math works out on that. Realistically, I would only think so many connections could be made at such high levels for any given class of students.

Re:Suicide Rates Among Adolescents and Young Adults in the U... by AlexandrB on Monday June 24, 2019 @12:45PM (#20265512)
How much does getting into the right college matter though? I'm not sure about the US system, but in Canada it doesn't feel like it matters all that much. Some schools are a little bit better than others, but it doesn't feel like a world of difference (at least when it comes to STEM). I've especially noticed this when interviewing candidates from various schools.
Re:Suicide Rates Among Adolescents and Young Adults in the U... by saltminer on Monday June 24, 2019 @02:44PM (#20266955)
It doesn't really matter outside of fields like investment banking, parents (and college prep companies) place an artificial importance on it for the most part. In a tougher economy prestigious schools can provide useful connections, but in a bullish economy a degree from a regionally-known state school is equally valid.
Re:Suicide Rates Among Adolescents and Young Adults in the U... by vkou on Monday June 24, 2019 @02:42PM (#20266926)
It's not what you know, it's who you know. Even in Canada, a Waterloo grad is going to have much better connections then someone from the University of Northern BC.
Re:Suicide Rates Among Adolescents and Young Adults in the U... by dgabriel on Monday June 24, 2019 @12:43PM (#20265483)
Even that is only important a little bit. Excelling at a mid-tier university is completely FINE. It's so much harder to get into an Ivy League school now than when I was applying in the 90s; I'm not pushing my child to the brink for a tiny blink of undergrad prestige.
Re:Suicide Rates Among Adolescents and Young Adults in the U... by jimcsharp on Monday June 24, 2019 @11:41AM (#20264640)
The 'arguing grades up' I always saw students doing seemed weird to me. But I was paying for school and ultimately just paying for a job-entry ticket so maybe I wasn't in the right mindset.
Re:Suicide Rates Among Adolescents and Young Adults in the U... by crispyambulance on Monday June 24, 2019 @11:44AM (#20264690)
Wait, there's grade-inflation in HIGH SCHOOL now?
Re:Suicide Rates Among Adolescents and Young Adults in the U... by ok_coo on Monday June 24, 2019 @12:02PM (#20264915)
Absolutely and application padding began as early as the 90s when I was applying to colleges. It definitely was a thing back then but not as bad as we have today.