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Re:How to parent more predictably (2018) by dragonwriter on Thursday June 13, 2019 @10:58AM (#20175503)
> Cleaning up the mess is not a "consequence", it is simply the expected behavior.

If you are directing the behavior due to the child’s action (or it's effects), it's a cobsequence.

A common term for consequences that are nonpunitive but instead correct or mitigate undesired effects of the behavior is “natural consequences”, and there is quite a lot of parenting literature favoring them as generally preferable to other consequences, especially for young children.

Re:How to parent more predictably (2018) by JshWright on Thursday June 13, 2019 @11:10AM (#20175599)
Yeah, I was using the scare quotes to indicate I was using the term loosely, and colloquially.