Re:Get iCourage. The Rejection Therapy iPhone App is Here
by yters on Thursday December 16, 2010 @03:09PM
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Is our fear of rejection part of common sense?
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Re:Get iCourage. The Rejection Therapy iPhone App is Here
by wallflower on Thursday December 16, 2010 @03:22PM
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> Use common sense
Read "The Gift of Fear" by Gavin de Becker. Highly recommend it for anyone who wants to know more about how to protect yourself.
tldr: Trust your instincts. They have been honed by many, many iterations.
Re:Get iCourage. The Rejection Therapy iPhone App is Here
by maayank on Thursday December 16, 2010 @05:06PM
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"They have been honed by many, many iterations."
For an environment and time that we no longer live in.
Evolution honed our instincts for a reason, but this reasoning was good for jungles and savannas, not urban sprawls and concrete jungles.
Re:Get iCourage. The Rejection Therapy iPhone App is Here
by roc on Thursday December 16, 2010 @05:53PM
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The danger being discussed above is that from other humans.
I don't think people have changed nearly enough to call our instincts about them into question.
Re:Get iCourage. The Rejection Therapy iPhone App is Here
by maayank on Friday December 17, 2010 @02:32AM
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You have now culture, law, education, and much more conditioning than 50000/100000/1000000 years ago. I would argue that much have changed regarding how other humans react to what we do.
Re:Get iCourage. The Rejection Therapy iPhone App is Here
by pavel_lishin on Thursday December 16, 2010 @06:14PM
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So has this been debunked? http://tinyurl.com/2e7c24z
Re:Get iCourage. The Rejection Therapy iPhone App is Here
by kristiandupont on Thursday December 16, 2010 @05:01PM
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Yes, but most of these iterations took place under very different circumstances than what you are likely to face today.
Re:Get iCourage. The Rejection Therapy iPhone App is Here
by edburgess on Thursday December 16, 2010 @04:29PM
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I don't know if you've ever read the Bible, but in Joshua 1:9 God says "Be strong and of a good courage; be not afraid".
God was telling Joshua and the Israelites the formula for success.
I'd take The Book's word over what your book says any day.
Re:Get iCourage. The Rejection Therapy iPhone App is Here
by yters on Friday December 17, 2010 @03:23PM
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Bible says fear of God is beginning of wisdom. We are to fear God because He can destroy our soul whereas everyone else can only destroy our body.
Re:Get iCourage. The Rejection Therapy iPhone App is Here
by pavel_lishin on Thursday December 16, 2010 @06:15PM
(#2014306)
I have a book that tells me I can't own people. It's kind of a short read, but they keep adding amendments...