"It is not a defect and it is a defect. I mean there is a big reasons behind such a response, but these reasons are often do not justify the severity of a response."

The issue is that the phrasing, and many peoples' mindset, seems to be that it's a trivial problem and solving it can be taken for granted; we just have to find the right trigger to enable the solution.

Generalizing from specific instances is the root of...well, isn't it the root of basically every intellectual and social problem there is? It's about as likely to have an on-off switch hidden somewhere as world peace.