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Re:A Solution for Loneliness: Get out and volunteer, researc... by weberc2 on Tuesday May 21, 2019 @04:50PM (#19974841)
Membership in a community is one benefit that churches/religions provide. Another is a worldview that values selflessness, altruism, and honesty. I don't think those things can exist apart from religion (at a cultural level, anyway), because as soon as you decide morality is relative then everyone is free to choose the morality that is most convenient for them/their tribe. I think this explains much of our political divide and the "post-Truth" era generally, and we're only a decade or two into mainstream moral relativism. This is, of course, speculation so take it for what it's worth.
Re:A Solution for Loneliness: Get out and volunteer, researc... by jmcqk6 on Tuesday May 21, 2019 @05:15PM (#19975134)
> because as soon as you decide morality is relative then everyone is free to choose the morality that is most convenient for them/their tribe.

I don't think I'm a moral relativist, but this is a non-sequitur. It's possible for morality to be relative, but still have guiding principals.

>we're only a decade or two into mainstream moral relativism.

No, people have always found a way to justify what want to be right regardless of the underlying ideology. We've just become more explicit about it in some cases. People's beliefs about what is right tend to be very convenient for them regardless of what they claim their beliefs to be.

I think it's the equivalent of a 'code smell' if you find yourself going through life without being challenged about what you think is right and wrong. I think it usually means you have come up with a convenient set of rules that allows you to ignore nuance and details so that you don't have to constantly struggle with what's good and bad.

Of course, I'm speculating too.

Re:A Solution for Loneliness: Get out and volunteer, researc... by wellpast on Tuesday May 21, 2019 @05:56PM (#19975515)
> No, people have always found a way to justify what want to be right regardless of the underlying ideology. We've just become more explicit about it in some cases. People's beliefs about what is right tend to be very convenient for them regardless of what they claim their beliefs to be.

This is probably true in cases. But I suspect that widespread cultural alignment to a general perspective/worldview must have an overall mass effect.

Re:A Solution for Loneliness: Get out and volunteer, researc... by weberc2 on Tuesday May 21, 2019 @06:07PM (#19975618)
> I don't think I'm a moral relativist, but this is a non-sequitur. It's possible for morality to be relative, but still have guiding principals.

At an individual level, I agree. But I stipulated "at a cultural level", by which I mean something like "if the culture is morally relativistic, I don't think you'll see a critical mass of principled individuals that would prop up a principled culture". I don't think moral relativism is compatible with a principled culture, at least not given the parameters of human psychology.

> No, people have always found a way to justify what want to be right regardless of the underlying ideology.

To be clear, I didn't claim moral absolutism generally or religion in particular is a panacea against this sort of self-dishonesty, but I think you see less of it and instances are less pronounced if only because that individual will lose credibility with his peers. In a morally relativistic culture, the offender only needs to argue "that's your morality, not mine" or "that's your truth, not mine", which is roughly what we see today.

> We've just become more explicit about it in some cases. People's beliefs about what is right tend to be very convenient for them regardless of what they claim their beliefs to be.

I think there's always a temptation to convince oneself that what they want is moral, but I think that temptation is inhibited because he knows his community won't let him get away with it (his reputation would be damaged if he advocated for a few overtly immoral things or many subtly immoral things, consistently). Further, with religions in particular, there is often a text that lays out the morality and there is only so much word lawyering someone can do without overtly running afoul of it. It further constrains the impulse. And with religions like Christianity in particular, a central activity is reflecting on one's selfishness and working against it (the concept of "dying to oneself").

Like I said before, it's not a panacea (there are many religious people and indeed Christians who subvert it), but I think it is a bulwark that we tear down at our own peril.

Re:A Solution for Loneliness: Get out and volunteer, researc... by Shorel on Tuesday May 21, 2019 @11:46PM (#19977570)
In that case, that ideal principled culture could be totally incompatible with human psychology, at least until an AI takes over.

As much as you defend organized religion, it seems to evolve into bigotry quite often, if not always.

But in the end, we are so dependent on the idea of a God, that we will end making an actual one.

Long live our robot overlords.

Re:A Solution for Loneliness: Get out and volunteer, researc... by GoblinSlayer on Wednesday May 22, 2019 @10:49AM (#19981767)
Moral relativism doesn't prevent loss of credibility with peers. Rather it enables reflected response: you treat nice people nicely and bad people badly - that's relativism, it looks unreasonable to be nice with everyone.
Re:A Solution for Loneliness: Get out and volunteer, researc... by weberc2 on Wednesday May 22, 2019 @12:30PM (#19982857)
After thinking about it for some time, I think I'd like to simplify my model:

In a morally relativistic society, credibility is distributed along tribal lines because there are no higher principles. Everyone is motivated to look out for oneself and the best avenue for that is a tribal alliance (as you point out "you treat nice people nicely and bad people badly", however, "nice" and "bad" devolve almost immediately into proxies for "benefits me" or "does not benefit me"). Things that would otherwise be absolutely wrong (like sexual assault or political violence) now vary morally depending on what is convenient to our tribe in the moment. Science can be swiftly rejected as racist or sexist (or whatever sin our tribe is immediately obsessed with) if it supports an inconvenient finding, but it will be back in favor next week when it produces convenient results.

In a morally absolute society, universal principles resist these selfish, tribalistic tendencies (although not completely or perfectly in all places at all times--remember we're describing a bulwark and not a panacea). We agree that sexual assault and political violence are very bad and we condemn people even in our own tribe who commit such acts. Empiricism is also venerated above personal or tribal convenience (although sophisticated empirical findings may take time to trickle down the chain of trust to the layperson).

Anyway, there are lots of holes to punch here since the topic is highly subjective and I didn't draw all of the connecting details (due to time constraints), but that's the general model.

Re:A Solution for Loneliness: Get out and volunteer, researc... by GoblinSlayer on Thursday May 23, 2019 @06:12AM (#19990253)
Doesn't sound like you make a difference. Human always think in terms of benefits. It speaks about complexity of human behavior that you might not see simple facts about it. You can't reduce it to a simple formula, calculating beneficial strategy can go a long way. You may believe that it's beneficial to be a sociopath until you know what it entails.
Re:A Solution for Loneliness: Get out and volunteer, researc... by jmcqk6 on Wednesday May 22, 2019 @02:57PM (#19984322)
do you believe there has ever been a morally absolute society?
Re:A Solution for Loneliness: Get out and volunteer, researc... by weberc2 on Wednesday May 22, 2019 @03:26PM (#19984578)
I think most societies are morally absolute. Relatively few accept the "that's your truth/morality, you can't impose that on me!". This doesn't imply that all morally absolute societies have the same mores.
Re:A Solution for Loneliness: Get out and volunteer, researc... by jmcqk6 on Wednesday May 22, 2019 @10:16PM (#19987709)
Nearly every society I look at has a widely diverse set of morals present in it. You might get widespread agreement that "rape is bad" but when you start to look closer there is disagreement within that about what constitutes rape (something I don't understand personally, but I can't ignore that it exists).

There is widespread disagreement about the use of force, who should care for the sick and poor and when, and so many other things.

So maybe I don't understand what you mean by a morally absolute society.

I don't understand your point of "that's your truth, you can't impose that on me." That's literally how most of us have to get along. If we were unable to accept moral differences in other people, we would be completely unable to function as a society. I don't believe there has ever been two people who have completely agreed on what's moral or not.

Re:A Solution for Loneliness: Get out and volunteer, researc... by jmcqk6 on Tuesday May 21, 2019 @06:21PM (#19975739)
You only need to look at the literal thousands of different versions of Christianity to see this.

Is it wrong to be gay as a christian? You're going to find hundreds of different christian opinions on this, with their own scripture to back it up.

Are you saved by words or actions? Again, you're going to find many many different answers, all with their own scripture and reasoning.

You claim that christianity is about reflecting on one's selfishness and working against it, but can you say that about the prosperity gospel? Trump is about as self-centered as a person can get, but he's held up as a saint by millions of christians in this country.

But perhaps you just mean within a single church community, and not christianity at large? I was a PK, though, so I know how church politics can go and the infighting and selfishness that can be exhibited within the community.

Basically the most we can hope for when it comes to morality is some general agreement about right and wrong, and that agreement is always shifting. There has never been a community or religion in the history of the world that hasn't exhibited this.

Re:A Solution for Loneliness: Get out and volunteer, researc... by weberc2 on Tuesday May 21, 2019 @07:17PM (#19976138)
Most of this doesn’t refute my point; it’s largely enumeration fallacy and I tried very hard to address this in my post (“not a panacea” and all that).

The thing that is probably most valid and damaging to my model is the bit about evangelicals accepting Trump. I genuinely don’t know about this, but I’m inclined to say that it’s due to the absorbtion of post-Truth mindset from the broader culture. I don’t think you would see anything like it 15 or 20 years ago.

FWIW, I’m sorry we’re being downvoted. I think we’re having quite an interesting conversation. :)

Re:A Solution for Loneliness: Get out and volunteer, researc... by jmcqk6 on Tuesday May 21, 2019 @08:14PM (#19976474)
What's an enumeration fallacy? I've googled, but nothing useful came up. The point I was trying to make is that even if you say "we should follow christian values" the necessary follow up question is "which christian values?"

15 or 20 years ago, the same type of thing was happening, just on a smaller scale. Good examples are some of the Televangelists like Peter Popoff.

Perhaps the thing we're disagreeing about is the extent that a "principled culture" protects against this kind of self-indulgence. Based on my personal experiences with the church, I've found the moral framework that it provides does not usually play an active role in the behavior of it's members, and is more often wielded as a tool of judgement against others than as a tool of self-reflection and self-improvement. But I can also recognize that my experiences with the church are not necessarily typical.

I'm not sure that there is a utility to moral authoritarianism beyond the ability to quell disagreements. History has shown that "god says" is an extremely powerful motivating force.

Re:A Solution for Loneliness: Get out and volunteer, researc... by humanrebar on Tuesday May 21, 2019 @07:23PM (#19976172)
I don't know what your point is. The lack of consistency in Christian behavior does not imply that Christian morality is on the whole unhelpful.

Especially since Christianity tends to downplay ritual and effort-based holiness, comparatively speaking. You don't achieve level 100 in Christian by donating, passing theology tests, travelling, conquering, converting people, or being sin free. Of course actual Christian practice will be all over the place. None of it is explicitly mandatory. Morality is fairly explicit, but actual enforcement of morality isn't the job of Christians outside of particular scenarios.

Re:A Solution for Loneliness: Get out and volunteer, researc... by jmcqk6 on Tuesday May 21, 2019 @07:59PM (#19976390)
>The lack of consistency in Christian behavior does not imply that Christian morality is on the whole unhelpful.

I wasn't trying to say that it's unhelpful, just make the point that it's not uniform. If someone says "we should follow christian values" the necessary followup question is "which christian values?"

Re:A Solution for Loneliness: Get out and volunteer, researc... by humanrebar on Tuesday May 21, 2019 @09:25PM (#19976905)
> which christian values?

"""And one of them, a lawyer, asked [Jesus] a question to test him. “Teacher, which is the great commandment in the Law?” And he said to him, “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. This is the great and first commandment. And a second is like it: You shall love your neighbor as yourself. On these two commandments depend all the Law and the Prophets."""

Most people have a hard enough time with those. But, you might say, what about the details? What about white lies and second donuts? That was also covered by Jesus:

"""Woe to you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! For you tithe mint and dill and cumin, and have neglected the weightier matters of the law: justice and mercy and faithfulness. These you ought to have done, without neglecting the others."""

The details might seem inconsistent and controversial, but the basic morality isn't all that convoluted or up for discussion. People just don't like thinking about how everyone is bad at the fundamental stuff.

Anyway, Christian philosophy is pretty coherent even if the people aren't. And it's not clear that your expectations of consistency are required for there to be social benefits to Christian belief in particular or religious belief more generally.

Re:A Solution for Loneliness: Get out and volunteer, researc... by jmcqk6 on Tuesday May 21, 2019 @09:44PM (#19976993)
There are millions of christians who disagree with you. But yeah sure, clearly you're the one person in the world who has it right!

You're right about my expectation of consistency for there to be social benefit. I just have an expectation of consistency from those claiming to have a monopoly on fundamental truth in the universe. My expectation has nothing to do with social good in that case.

Re:A Solution for Loneliness: Get out and volunteer, researc... by humanrebar on Tuesday May 21, 2019 @10:56PM (#19977325)
> There are millions of christians who disagree with you.

About The Greatest Commandment and the Golden Rule? As directly quoted from Jesus? If so, this definition of "Christian" is far too encompassing to be useful in this discussion.

> But yeah sure, clearly you're the one person in the world who has it right!

What I'm quoting is even less controversial than the Nicene Creed, which is unanimous among major Christian denominations. They can't even agree on what day of the week is the sabbath and what day of the year is Easter, but they all agree on The Nicene Creed. And they absolutely agree on The Greatest Commandment.

There is not as much controversy about the basics as you seem to think there is.

Re:A Solution for Loneliness: Get out and volunteer, researc... by satellitec4t on Wednesday May 22, 2019 @03:08AM (#19978596)
Numerous variants of the Golden rule predate Christianity and there are few if any direct quotes of Jesus that survive. The gospels were written decades later. Oddly Jesus doesn't appear to have written or had someone record his wisdom directly, despite Aristotle setting an example with his 18 books of ethics over 300 years earlier.
Re:A Solution for Loneliness: Get out and volunteer, researc... by humanrebar on Wednesday May 22, 2019 @06:26AM (#19979667)
I'm not sure I follow your point. We aren't talking about pop history; we are talking about whether there is shared Christian morality.
Re:A Solution for Loneliness: Get out and volunteer, researc... by satellitec4t on Wednesday May 22, 2019 @05:23PM (#19985675)
I guess I led with the wrong thing. Mainly pointing out that they are not, in the strictest sense anyway, "directly quoted from Jesus" (and it kinda boggles my mind that he wouldn't have the foresight to write things down clearly to help keep things clear and consistent, which would not even have been unprecedented at the time)
Re:A Solution for Loneliness: Get out and volunteer, researc... by satellitec4t on Wednesday May 22, 2019 @03:03AM (#19978557)
Also Jesus: no need to wash your hands if you give to the poor you hypocrites, what goes in the mouth comes out of the body!

1800 years later: humans finally develop the germ theory of disease and can stop dying of easily preventable illnesses

Re:A Solution for Loneliness: Get out and volunteer, researc... by weberc2 on Tuesday May 21, 2019 @08:01PM (#19976396)
I agree, but I don’t think your point refutes mine. See my sibling comment.
Re:A Solution for Loneliness: Get out and volunteer, researc... by _emacsomancer_ on Tuesday May 21, 2019 @10:06PM (#19977098)
> Especially since Christianity tends to downplay ritual and effort-based holiness, comparatively speaking.

This sounds like a rather Protestant-centric viewpoint.

Re:A Solution for Loneliness: Get out and volunteer, researc... by humanrebar on Wednesday May 22, 2019 @06:43AM (#19979746)
Even for Catholics and Eastern Orthodox Christians compared to other major religions.

Non-protestants are still rather light on compulsory behavior on the whole. Compare to orthodox branches of other major religions. No particular rules on clothing, cleanliness, charity, gender separation, pilgrimages, prayer times, need to attain spiritual states, etc. No karma to optimize. No hidden knowledge to uncover.

Some churches eat a bit of cracker and juice/wine on a regular basis. Some get a person wet as a one time initiation ceremony. That's pretty light ritual on the whole.

And while various High Mass clothes and rituals are certainly there, there's no particular requirement of parishioners to give one, attend any particular mass, or even attend a minimum number of them.

Re:A Solution for Loneliness: Get out and volunteer, researc... by _emacsomancer_ on Wednesday May 22, 2019 @01:46PM (#19983563)
I still might debate the role of ritual in Catholicism, Eastern & Oriental Orthodoxy,

> No karma to optimize

but I actually had the more karmic things in mind, i.e the importance of Works vs importance of Faith, which certainly does vary between different Christian sects.

> No hidden knowledge to uncover.

There are gnostic types of things. If perhaps less so today than in the Renaissance. But it's not as if it's absent.

So I still think this is a rather Protestant perspective.

Edit to say: Also, in fact even or perhaps even especially, Protestants were engaged in gnosticism/Christian mysticism in the Renaissance period.

Re:A Solution for Loneliness: Get out and volunteer, researc... by humanrebar on Wednesday May 22, 2019 @06:02PM (#19986039)
But my point is that, comparatively speaking "behave like a faithful person" is a fairly open ended assignment compared to attaining nirvana, circumcision, forgoing beef, or literally earning one's way into paradise.
Re:A Solution for Loneliness: Get out and volunteer, researc... by dragonwriter on Tuesday May 21, 2019 @06:31PM (#19975799)
> don't think those things can exist apart from religion (at a cultural level, anyway), because as soon as you decide morality is relative then everyone is free to choose the morality that is most convenient for them/their tribe.

You've confused absence of moral relativism with religion; the former does not require the latter, and most non-religious people are not moral relativists, at least in the sense of the strong meta-ethical relativism which would justify the claim above.

Re:A Solution for Loneliness: Get out and volunteer, researc... by zAy0LfpBZLC8mAC on Tuesday May 21, 2019 @07:21PM (#19976158)
Actually, it's way funnier than that, because most religions are strongly in favour of moral relativism and subjectivism. When the standard for what is moral is the opinion of some guy, that is clearly just a subjective opinion, and when different cultures refer to different guys for the opinion, that is clearly relative. Just adding the further nonsense claim that your guy also created the universe, or something to that effect, seems to be an effective rhetorical device, but doesn't change that it's just a guy's opinion, not an objective fact.
Re:A Solution for Loneliness: Get out and volunteer, researc... by weberc2 on Tuesday May 21, 2019 @07:32PM (#19976225)
I’m not following, sorry.
Re:A Solution for Loneliness: Get out and volunteer, researc... by zAy0LfpBZLC8mAC on Tuesday May 21, 2019 @08:04PM (#19976414)
Anything I can help you with?
Re:A Solution for Loneliness: Get out and volunteer, researc... by weberc2 on Tuesday May 21, 2019 @07:29PM (#19976198)
I think the former may require the latter. I’m not sure how an atheistic (in the literal sense) population could resist the forces of selfishness and tribalism over generations (again, this isn’t to say that religious people are unwavering, but I think religion does function as an anchor that keeps a population’s mores from drifting too far). As for whether most non religious people are moral relativists, perhaps they aren’t individually because they’ve settled on a morality that is palatable to them, but in aggregate I posit their morality (moralities?) drift more readily than religious persons.

And as a reminder, this is all speculation and I completely understand that you may not agree (I may not agree by the end of this thread!).

Re:A Solution for Loneliness: Get out and volunteer, researc... by __jal on Tuesday May 21, 2019 @07:53PM (#19976340)
> I’m not sure how an atheistic population could resist the forces of selfishness and tribalism

First you're going to have to explain how religious populations avoid those.

Hint: they don't.

Re:A Solution for Loneliness: Get out and volunteer, researc... by weberc2 on Wednesday May 22, 2019 @03:31PM (#19984628)
I had already addressed this in a sibling subthread: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=19975618

Anyway, they do; that they do so imperfectly is not a counterargument, since (as I've mentioned several times), religion serves as a bulwark in this regard, not a panacea.

Re:A Solution for Loneliness: Get out and volunteer, researc... by GoblinSlayer on Wednesday May 22, 2019 @12:00PM (#19982570)
With better education. Better reasoning skills prevent stupid applications of instincts.
Re:A Solution for Loneliness: Get out and volunteer, researc... by satellitec4t on Wednesday May 22, 2019 @02:49AM (#19978477)
> Another is a worldview that values selflessness, altruism, and honesty. I don't think those things can exist apart from religion

Religion doesn't have a monopoly on those ideals. They are not even solely human ideals. Many mammals display them in certain scenarios.

> (at a cultural level, anyway).

Many of the least religious countries are the best places to live, and the most religious, the worst. I went to Norway (the least religious country in western Europe), and they often don't check tickets on the train or at the entrances of places. When you ask someone why not, because people could lie, you get an answer like.. "because one wouldn't do that" (ie cheat the system). I got so used to it that I would lose my train tickets in my bag because I didn't need them. The only place I needed them was getting off the train at the airport because there was a machine that checked it.

> because as soon as you decide morality is relative then everyone is free to choose the morality that is most convenient for them/their tribe.

Religions do this. There are many sects with different rules. People pick and choose what rules to obey all the time.

Not being religious doesn't make one a moral relativist. Ethics and morality can be reasoned about.

> I think this explains much of our political divide and the "post-Truth" era generally

The post-truth era in the West is clearly a product of the religious right: https://youtu.be/xnhJWusyj4I

Re:A Solution for Loneliness: Get out and volunteer, researc... by sjy on Tuesday May 21, 2019 @06:33PM (#19975812)
Why can't selflessness, altruism and honesty prevail under the influence of secular government? I'm not saying our current governments have achieved this, but we also see a great deal of selfishness and dishonesty in religious groups. We do have secular incentives that encourage altruism (eg. charitable deductions and state honours for people who contribute greatly to the community) and legal (conviction) and social (expulsion from public office) punishments for dishonesty in some cases. Isn't it conceivable that if these secular tools were used more effectively, we could achieve a non-religious society that values selflessness, altruism and honesty?
Re:A Solution for Loneliness: Get out and volunteer, researc... by weberc2 on Tuesday May 21, 2019 @07:30PM (#19976212)
My comment was about culture, not government, so I’m not sure how to address your question.
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Re:A Solution for Loneliness: Get out and volunteer, researc... by weberc2 on Tuesday May 21, 2019 @07:31PM (#19976218)
Sorry guy, I’m not here for a flame war. Best regards.
Re:A Solution for Loneliness: Get out and volunteer, researc... by zAy0LfpBZLC8mAC on Wednesday May 22, 2019 @12:41AM (#19977822)
Your inflammatory comments suggest something different, unfortunately.