There are some flaws in the labor laws in the US, and the first thing that comes to mind is the fact the "Union Monopoly", ie once a Union is established there's no competition. If you allowed for competitive union practices, then you no longer allow for rent seeking by that union because someone can always just organize a different, "better" union. I don't really care which happens first (union formations or reform to labor organization laws) but both would be my goal for a long term solution.
A potentially viable free market alternative to unions is worker coops. They have the resource-pooling and sharing of unions, but without the coercion and rent-seeking.
Also you: a free market alternative to <organized labor> is <organized labor>.
You hate the word union. You seem to have a problem with how unions function in the US. I agree! Having all carpenters represented by a single union isn't necessarily as good an answer as having all carpenters represented by several unions. It creates other problems (unions competing against each other leading to race to the bottom rating, mass firings, etc) but it's really no different than companies just hiring non-union laborers now and would hopefully lead to a larger percentage of labor represented by orgs and not individuals.
There absolutely should be laws in place preventing retaliation and allowing organizations, I just don't think the US model has done well.
I simply cannot wrap my mind around the idea that it is morally permissible to restrict freedom-of-association/contract-liberty in this way.
I don't see how labor organizing, in either this specific case or generally in the industry, is a bad thing. Yes, it makes it harder for kickstarter management, but that doesn't mean they'll crumble.