Re:Ask HN: How to lead a stable, happy career as a bad inter...
by shakkhar on Monday May 13, 2019 @09:16PM
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I am not sure why this is downvoted - but I second this opinion.
> I want to free myself from that so that I can focus on building my own life, get into a relationship and starting a family.
Leetcoding is not preventing OP from doing any of that. This sounds like just an excuse for not doing the hard work. It really sounds like OP doesn't enjoy coding.
1) Maybe software isn’t the right career for you, and 2) Don’t let being unable to land a software development job prevent you from saving money and getting a girlfriend / boyfriend.
There are many other careers out there.