One thing that actually was important in kicking things off was reading/hearing this quote somewhere, probably the interweb.

This was while sorting out the effects of neglecting loved and dear ones at a point in time.

It goes something like this:

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You met an a-hole one day. Yeah, it’s just another a-hole.

You meet a-holes everyday?

Well, maybe you’re the a-hole.

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Worth thinking about if you find yourself in bad spots all the time.