Suppose you have types A and B, such that A <: B. What is, then, the relationship between List<A> and List<B>? This question is called variance, and different languages have very different answers to this, but once generics are reified, the chosen variance strategy is baked into the runtime.
> Couldn't the language implementations basically pass around ICollection<Object> in .NET somewhat similar to how they do in Java?
They could, but then this adds significant runtime overhead at the interop layer. For example, a popular standard API may take a parameter of type List<int>. How do you then call it from, say, JavaScript, without an O(n) operation (and without changing JS)?
Which, realistically, is probably the only principled way to do things if you want to be doing much with variant generics in a cross-language way.
The Java way, "I pick my variance strategy, you pick yours, and we'll both pass everything around as a List<Object> at runtime and just hope that our varying decisions about what their actual contents are allowed to be never cause us any nasty surprises for each other at run time," is not type-safe and can lead to nasty surprises at run time. It's easier, sure, but easier is not necessarily better.
The general solution is, like you suggested, to avoid using reified generics in the module interface where the interop happens.
What wouldn't work would be to, e.g., create a Python-native list and try to pass it into a function that expects a .NET IList<T>. Which doesn't feel that odd to me - they may have the same name, but otherwise they're very different types that have very different interfaces.
That said, the Iron languages never took off. My personal story there is that all the new dynamic features that C# got with the release of the DLR pretty much killed my desire to interact with C# from a dynamic language. The release that gave me Python on .NET also turned C# itself into an acceptable enough Python for my needs.
See: https://docs.microsoft.com/en-us/dotnet/api/system.valuetype...