The vast majority of GC use does not impact end user latency. Thinking otherwise is either the availability heuristic at work, or you work in AAA videogames or another ultra-high-real-time-performance industry and don't realize you're not in the center of programming work, you're on an extreme. (A perfectly valid and sizeable extreme.)

This may also be why you don't feel restricted; if you happen to work in any of the many places where a tree of references is adequate, you'll find Rust-style management to be a treat. If you work pervasively with graph structures in the core of your program, though, the experience can change. Pervasively-graph-type-structures are generally just a question of how you want your automated garbage collection to work, because I'm pretty sure getting the manual management correct otherwise is effectively impossible without an algorithm that's going to look a lot like a GC.

That said, despite my disagreement, I also disagree with the people who, as of this writing, have downvoted your comment into grey. I feel like I've been seeing a burst of "downvote as disagreement" in the past couple of weeks.