Yeah, that's fair.
> The people you discuss fear ostracism, but how does one get ostracized if one is in the majority?
Because there has never in history been a case of a small group of people exercising power over a larger group, even when the larger group could, if organized, easily overcome the smaller. Never happened.
But seriously, this is a game of equilibria. If everyone who speaks against X gets lynched, and people who don't enthusiastically support that lynching find themselves next in line, it doesn't matter how many people actually support X or like lynching. Any individual moving against that system gets lynched, including by the people who dislike both X and lynching, because no one wants to be lynched themselves.
0: https://slatestarcodex.com/2018/05/23/can-things-be-both-pop...
1: https://slatestarcodex.com/2017/10/23/kolmogorov-complicity-...
While probably better than the similar survey on blind a year ago, I wouldn't put much trust in it. Nor should you.
Now your statements about comfort are spot on. But consider why that is. The people you discuss fear ostracism, but how does one get ostracized if one is in the majority? It's the same reason a more liberal person might not share their views in a company full of conservatives. The whole silent majority idea is wishful thinking.