I don't necessarily think it's arrogance so much as delusion. For instance a person paying tens of thousands of dollars for a degree of minimal utility obviously knows that this is a very bad decision deep down, but it's something they want to do - or perhaps they feel like they could not cut it in something like a STEM field. So the rationalizing kicks in. Maybe they'll become a lawyer, an author, or a speaker. They'll make millions! It'll be great! Of course it's just cognitive dissonance and self delusion.
[1] - https://news.gallup.com/poll/7981/Half-Young-People-Expect-S...
If you look at the last 20 years if you started out as a software engineer around 2000 you probably made a lot less than $100k when you started out but you should be making more than that by the time you're 40, it should average out to around $100k.
So if you average to $100k for 20 years that's $2 million in earnings. Say you averaged 20% taxation you're down to $1.6 million. If you had $100k in student debt, which would have been a ton if you graduated in 2000, you're still at $1.5 million.
There are families which live on way less money than this, if you don't have a family and you're a tech worker you should have been able to save $1 million in that 20 years if you were maxing your 401k and being otherwise financially prudent and not living too much of a consumer lifestyle. The key thing here is if you were saving right from the start your investments have already had 20 years to grow.
I see co-workers buying new cars every 2-3 years and going out to eat every day, paying huge amounts of rent, etc.. buying every new video game that comes out at $50-60/pop, taking international trips all the time.
It's easy to spend money, but if you don't it's also easy to save it.
Even if you do have a family.. you are probably not getting married to someone making minimum wage, now you probably have 2 salaried workers earning more than the average/median, even easier to save.
Point is there’s no magic to becoming a millionaire if you have minimal expenses and single.
Mean is probably better than median here, right? Because salary isn't quite a normal distribution. The high end is super high. 300k is normal for FAANG, but that class of tech employee is in the top 10% of the wider tech salary pool, at least.
Interesting that you call out being single. I've had the opposite experience – the trick seems to be a salary like that and a spouse that is at least pulling down a normal salary as well. If they're also making engineer money, then you're super set. If I'd have been splitting rent and groceries for the past 10 years, my finances would look a lot better.
That's not an excuse, I could have gotten a roommate with the same effect. Just to say that it seems being single raises expenses because you lose the little collaborative economies of scale.
Where do you get 300k from?
When I went to college only a few years ago the best paying jobs in consulting and banking were largely gated by what school you went to. Now students from “non-prestigious” schools or no formal schooling at all have a good chance at earning that much.
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> MORE THAN half of American millennials, the generation of people born between 1981 and 1996, believe that they will one day be millionaires; one in five think they will get there by the age of 40.
This, to me, is absolutely insane.
Given that it's from a survey by Ameritrade, is it possible that the survey strongly self selects for fiscally healthy people (proximity to ameritrade is probably a strong signal here), and who understand that you can be a paper millionaire with, say, one really good property and a modest retirement account?
I somewhat hope so, because if this means "half the people who work at chipotle expect to be millionaires" then that's admirably ambitious but a little miscalibrated.
Hell, I've got a decent tech salary and my brother's running a healthy lifestyle business. I wouldn't say with certainty that either of us are going to become millionaires, despite being unusually well positioned to do so.
What happens when these people's dreams collide with reality? Are people content to drift through life saying "any day now, things will turn around and make me rich..."?
Nevermind that being a millionaire isn't that important. I'd take median wealth and top decile meaning over median meaning and top decile wealth any day.