The GOP is the party of grievance. The democrats are a big tent, but smaller groups get lost in the crowd.
Trump said he could shoot someone on fifth avenue and not lose a single voter. And he's right.
If we can change our voting system, then maybe I can give you better advice. Until then, game theory suggests voting Democrat.
> proud white Americans
Better be careful here. Proud to be an American is okay. Proud to be white... why should anyone be proud of the color of their skin? Even if it should be okay (but honestly white people have an awful history, as do most skin colors if you look back far enough), it's so arbitrary. There's nothing to be proud of, you just have specific pigmentation.
I cannot argue with any of this, and highlights some of my flawed thinking. I guess I thought of "white americans" as an abstraction of Americans of European decent. So I guess, I don't know the proper way to convey "Someone who is proud of their European heritage, and proud of being an American."
You apparently do care about groups over individuals, using that classification.
The problem is a democratic party one -- they need to figure out a way to grow beyond their urban core to appeal to some subset of rural and other voters. You need a better message to control the Senate.