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Re:A guide to difficult conversations by johnchristopher on Tuesday March 26, 2019 @03:21PM (#19495149)
> The family (not my wife) asked me to talk to my brother-in-law about this because nobody else could get through to him.

I am a stranger on the net but your first priority is your wife and your relationship with her. Be very cautious with demands from the family even if well meaning. Protect yourself and your relationship with your wife.

Re:A guide to difficult conversations by pdonis on Tuesday March 26, 2019 @07:43PM (#19496957)
I second this comment. If the wife has not asked for the intervention, the first obvious question is, why not? That's something that needs to be cleared up with the wife before anything else is done.