Teslas, on the other hand, apparently change their handling and driving profile overnight at the whim of the software engineers at Tesla, without even telling the drivers, and introducing bugs like the OP that are liable to get someone killed.
They are not the same, and comparing them only highlights the issues that Tesla has around their OTA update practice.
OTA updates only happen after confirmed by the users. Where did you hear that it happens without user intervention?
* Improved DOG MODE
* Improved SENTRY MODE
Which were the release notes for the update?
There's only so much you can learn from even the best release notes, period. The ever-so-common "bug fixes," for example, is so broad that it effectively means nothing at all. At best, it's telling the end user "this little update just changes some stuff hidden under the hood. You won't notice anything, so don't give it any thought."
You can't ever look at consent outside of the context of the best available alternative to agreeing to something.