If everyone shuts up, how are people supposed to figure out where to move to? I hate the idea that no one should ever be critical of anything.

I'm not saying everyone should shut up, just the haters. They're so loud and shrill that they drown everyone else out. There are lots of people who like suburbia (and dislike cities). They're just not smug and self-righteous about it, and they don't shout it from the rooftops while looking down on everyone else.