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Re:Ask HN: What advice messed up your life? by aaronbrethorst on Friday November 26, 2010 @06:40PM (#1943714)
Wearing a suit != "[seeming] like a 'good, obedient' employee." I have always really appreciated it when job candidates dress up for their interviews. It makes it seem like they're saying to me 'I know this isn't your dress code, but I want to put my best foot forward and make sure you know I take this interaction seriously.'

    Say hi to random strangers so you can make friends (even though you're introverted and doing this makes you look like a fool)
I wouldn't be with my girlfriend of a year and a half if I hadn't stuck my neck out and gotten outside my comfort zone when I was introduced to her. It doesn't make you look like a fool; it provides you with an aura of confidence.

    Go to social events where you don't know anyone there.
As a corollary, I imagine you'd also suggest never moving to a new city where you don't know anyone, right?
Re:Ask HN: What advice messed up your life? by nostrademons on Friday November 26, 2010 @07:01PM (#1943770)
I have heard that certain mid-size to large technology companies in Silicon Valley actually ding people on "culture fit" if they wear a suit to the interview. This was actually one of those pieces of advice my mom gave me that turned out to be bad advice.

Instead, I'd suggest "Know the culture that you're entering, respect it, and do your best to adhere to it."

Re:Ask HN: What advice messed up your life? by aaronbrethorst on Friday November 26, 2010 @09:06PM (#1944041)
Frankly, I think that dinging a person for wearing one is just as capricious as dinging a person for not wearing one.

But, by and large, I agree with your suggestion. If that cultural fit is a bad one, it's best to skip it.

Re:Ask HN: What advice messed up your life? by ghaff on Friday November 26, 2010 @11:31PM (#1944296)
FWIW,

When I interviewed for my current job, it was at a company where I knew a lot of people and was pretty familiar with th culture. I knew a jacket and tie would be overkill but it seemed respectful overkill. A suit would have been way overboard though I'd be surprised had anyone really dinged me for it. There is a matter of understanding norms but, usually at least, a degree of overdressing for interviews seems a reasonable approach.

Re:Ask HN: What advice messed up your life? by hasenj on Friday November 26, 2010 @06:44PM (#1943723)
> As a corollary, I imagine you'd also suggest never moving to a new city where you don't know anyone, right?

I don't see that as a corollary (a city is not a social event). But for me personally, that's right, I wouldn't do that unless I had an extroverted friend or family moving with me, or I had something specific to do (job, study, etc). Although I wouldn't necessarily suggest that to other people; this is just me, and each to his own.