Re:Ask HN: What advice messed up your life?
by ericb on Friday November 26, 2010 @07:06PM
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> Otherwise the fact that you're not being yourself will overshadow whatever it is you're trying to achieve.
I view my "self" as fluid, and whatever I want me to be.
Re:Ask HN: What advice messed up your life?
by jeangenie on Friday November 26, 2010 @09:38PM
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You bifurcate "I" and "me" implying the former can reliably create such a state in the latter; if this is the case, then what's actually at work in forming your "me"?
Re:Ask HN: What advice messed up your life?
by ericb on Friday November 26, 2010 @11:32PM
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I used two different terms to aid the reader, but I and me are just pointers to self and like a ruby class running metaprogramming on self, one can rewrite oneself. The new code still comes from the self, though.
Re:Ask HN: What advice messed up your life?
by jeangenie on Monday November 29, 2010 @01:01PM
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not felicitous to say the least. you're ignoring my point that your self is formed by something which also has a form that you're ignoring since you're so in love with its ability to change.
Re:Ask HN: What advice messed up your life?
by marvin on Friday November 26, 2010 @09:46PM
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Of course you have to have some reason to go outside your comfort zone. If anyone has ever suggested otherwise, they have misunderstood the concept completely. The point is to grow as a person and achieve proficiency in an area you want, but which doesn't come naturally to you.
You're not supposed to be awkward and uncomfortable just for the hell of it.
I made myself go back to university when my first experience was not successful, I'm now on track for a great degree. I am in the process of chasing a few business opportunities, and I'm putting myself in the position of a marketing man. This has already lead to some promising leads. I also tried to be a bit more open minded and non-judgemental, and socialise in ways I didn't previously, and I made some great friends as a result.
Your life is in many ways, very much in your own hands.