It’s hard, friend. Really hard. Bias exists. Some people will weaponize that fact against you. The same way people will weaponize imposter syndrome or stereotype threat. Basically, most people will weaponize whatever they can against you to gain an edge/ this is human nature. Underneath all the fuck-fuck games though, there is a reality where unconscious bias of all type lives. Like all things, the answer lies somewhere in between the extremely vocal minorities on whatever side.