It's like we're reading two different memos. I'm going to guess you're one of those "all gender differences are machinations of the patriarchy" ideologues? There are plenty of intelligent people who are fine with the idea that there are biological gender differences. There is plenty of evidence, the balance of which also finds that men and women are equally intelligent on average.

https://slatestarcodex.com/2017/08/07/contra-grant-on-exagge...

http://www.overcomingbias.com/2018/09/sexism-inflation.html

Here's an interview by James Damore by feminist LianaK:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5SFLoKa8FdA

He's not a monster or a raging sexist. He and his memo certainly didn't warrant the hysterical mass staying-home that happened shortly after the media kerfuffle. (In retrospect, I'm actually happy the whole reaction happened, though it is a shame an innocent man lost his job. This event can be preserved for future generations and studied and evaluated for what it really was -- and for how ridiculous and dishonest it was.)