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Re:Poor-quality relationships linked to greater distress tha... by GuB-42 on Tuesday February 26, 2019 @01:16PM (#19256839)
> They say this, but people with integrity are typically made fun of secretly or even publicly, declared dismissive and asocial, instead of positively recognized in any fashion.

Here is an anecdote going against this idea.

In my junior high school, the person responsible for discipline was a strong woman. She was notoriously strict, walked around with a baton, you definitely didn't want to cross her path when you were misbehaving. She was always treated with respect: she wouldn't have it any other way.

And guess what, everyone loved her. In her office was a collection of sticks, batons and baseball bats given to her by students as a parting gift. When she retired, she got an article in the local newspaper, the subtitle was "discipline is always accepted as long as it is just".

Just to make things clear in case it wasn't obvious: she didn't beat students, threatened to do so or used any kind of violence in general. The baton was mostly just for show.

Re:Poor-quality relationships linked to greater distress tha... by O1111OOO on Wednesday February 27, 2019 @03:22AM (#19261795)
> Here is an anecdote going against this idea.

I'm not sure this goes against his thoughts (and possible experiences) on the matter. In your example, you've established a figure that is in charge for maintaining 'Law and Order'. This person is responsible for creating the rules in which others live by in this (subset of) society.

I have found, over the years, that people respect rules when applied to everyone evenly. They even respect the person charged with dispensing those rules (evenly and fairly).

OP's sentiment, I think, applies to a 'Lord of the Rings' mentality. There are no set rules for behavior that are overseen. Groupthink, group pressure, dominating (if not vulgar) voices may tend to lead. Not unlike the film 'Idiocracy'.

Re:Poor-quality relationships linked to greater distress tha... by invalidOrTaken on Wednesday February 27, 2019 @10:25AM (#19263773)
(Lord of the Flies?)
Re:Poor-quality relationships linked to greater distress tha... by O1111OOO on Wednesday February 27, 2019 @05:15PM (#19267440)
So weird. I actually caught it and thought I fixed it before posting. Thanks! Yes, I actually meant Lord of the Flies.

sidenote: I often start commenting on my text editor and paste into forms.