Right on. As the parent of two children living in Silicon Valley: Consider moving sooner rather than later. Once you have children, Silicon Valley is expensive. And your cost of living directly affects your risk profile, and your available time.

I have noticed a steady flow of people leaving the Valley once they have that second child (Austin seems to be a popular choice)...

Believe me, it has also been a thought in the back of my mind. Any suggestions as where to start if I went that route?

Start by finding cheap, short-term housing in the area (craigslist, personal connections, or asking on communities such as this one).

Thanks