It's possible to learn a lot from people like Bunnie Huang, such as his "Chumby" product which he blogged the development of.
That will help people around here guide you towards a good way to prototype it.
Because there may be a way to prototype what you want without knowing much about hardware design.
You've already be directed to Adafruit which is a great resource, not just as a store and product developers in their own right but for all their learn materials and years worth of weekly videos. Here's a breakout board for charging their little LiPo batteries via MicroUSB.
Most of these devices have on-demand displays to save power.
Miniturising it and making the casework function is the hard part. You might be able to build a "desktop" version of it fairly easily..
As for the wristband, have a look at hexiwear, and the hexiwear battery pack(which may be wearable). it has BLE and it does support "Firmware Over the Air update", i think.
https://news.panasonic.com/global/press/data/2016/09/en16092...
Flexible batteries you can embad in a tissue wristband for example. But I don't know if it's possible to do so.
Thanks for the link I will check it out asap.
That sounds like a familiar recipe for disaster. Most hardware based Kickstarters fail. Even successful ones deliver very late and over budget. I work in electronics and wouldn't do it.
You really need to find someone with experience in bringing products to market. Hardware mass production is extremely difficult and expensive (from prototyping to final layout to component sourcing to quality control) and that's before you get to stocking and delivery. That all requires a lot of investment, time and understanding of the underlying systems.