Re:My disabled son – ‘the nobleman, the philanderer, the det...
by Angostura on Thursday February 07, 2019 @02:15PM
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> Instead, feel some solidarity, even rage, for the opportunities denied to this person.
By whom? His parents or the disease? we don't know enough about how his parents treated him, or how much effort they put in to supporting a full life, to suggest they denied him anything. All we do know is they deeply regret a regimented bed-time regime.
Re:My disabled son – ‘the nobleman, the philanderer, the det...
by eckza on Thursday February 07, 2019 @01:27PM
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My biggest takeaway from this was that his parents refused to ever see him as anything other than a disabled child that played too many computer games.
Re:My disabled son – ‘the nobleman, the philanderer, the det...
by mwcampbell on Saturday February 09, 2019 @11:24AM
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You're right, and I'm ashamed that despite having a disability myself (visual impairment), I missed this.
By age 25, he should have had a job. His parents should have encouraged him to pursue a line of work that can be done remotely, such as programming, design, writing, or tech support. The people who came to his funeral from far away should have included his coworkers.
I'm glad he had his guild, certainly. I ask you all to question your emotional reactions to the "touching" aspect of this story. Instead, feel some solidarity, even rage, for the opportunities denied to this person. And, if you are the parent of a disabled child, please get to know some disabled adults, and get familiar with the many writers and thinkers out there so that you can educate yourself, and also, put your child in touch.