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Re:Son, as soon as someone puts their hands on you... by joe_the_user on Thursday November 11, 2010 @05:30PM (#1895591)
I'd agree.

I was a violent person in elementary school and Jr. High. I was made fun of constantly and things occasionally came to blows.

I usually won.

But it didn't help much, really, even if it satisfied me at the time to literally pound-in the heads of kids who'd been making me miserable.

Teasing and bullying only seem like they are about someone seeming weak. They're about a mob mentality. That is what needs to be addressed. I'd say a social atmosphere where non-conformists are fair game is mostly what stimulates bullies. Individual kids fighting back is not really going to be the solution.

Re:Son, as soon as someone puts their hands on you... by gte910h on Monday November 15, 2010 @11:43AM (#1906878)
While I wouldn't call myself a violent person (even then), several bullying issues came to a quite physical conclusion in my youngest years. And yes, while the bullying stopped against me, it didn't stop the kid from doing it to others.

Do you think it was just non-conformity? The meanness of children in general? Is this something that all humans have? Or some american dysfunction? Some western dysfunction?