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Re:Son, as soon as someone puts their hands on you... by jerf on Thursday November 11, 2010 @05:11PM (#1895513)
Yeah, and being bullied kills you inside too, only quickly and with much more duration.

If I could go back and do it all again there'd be two or three more swung fists. Probably no more than that, either, because that's all it would take.

In fact I think this debate would be really different if defending yourself against being bullied actually required sustained violence, but instead rather we're in a world where I can ask "How many people have killed themselves that could have been saved by them instead swinging their fists once?" and get a number probably at least in the thousands.

This isn't just a philosophy debating match; children are dying over this, and a lot more are getting badly hurt.

Re:Son, as soon as someone puts their hands on you... by ahoyhere on Friday November 12, 2010 @07:55PM (#1899881)
My mother used to beat me, until I was big enough to fight back, which I did. Guess which hurt me more?

Her abuse of me doesn't weigh on me nearly as much as mine of her, because in the latter I had a choice. So there you go.

Re:Son, as soon as someone puts their hands on you... by jerf on Saturday November 13, 2010 @12:41AM (#1900413)
We're not talking about parental or family abuse here. This is bullying, which is not the same thing. Being less bad, it admits of different solutions.