that's obliging inaction - it obliges someone to not say or do something which offends you - so it is a negative right
However, you are correct that the line can be blurry and right in general should be granted with great caution.
and is exactly the definition of negative rights. right there. that's the definition. that's it.
Now, you're saying that because "right to not be offended" is a bad idea, and you don't agree with it, that makes it a positive right. But your opinion of it does not matter to the definition.
The definition of "positive right" would be requiring someone else to, say, stand when you enter the room, or always address you as "sir" because you're knighted.
Let me also clarify that I very much dislike any "right to not be offended" and also that these definitions of "positive rights" and "negative rights" is clearly not very useful.
How is it different?