Re:Screen time: how much is too much?
by dorchadas on Thursday January 17, 2019 @02:49PM
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And even when you can encourage your child (or yourself -- adults also still need to have well-rounded experiences in the physical world, and outside their comfort zones) to go do something off the screen everyone else is still stuck on it. That's the issue I've been running into lately. Try to go do something, meet new people, etc. and a lot of them are just on their phones, if they're there at all.
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It's true. The big reason that kids don't go out and play anymore is that there are no kids outside playing anymore. I live in a neighbourhood where I'm only a few blocks from 2 elementary schools and I never see any kids out playing.
Re:Screen time: how much is too much?
by slothtrop on Thursday January 17, 2019 @04:15PM
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A product of helicopter parenting in many respects. New parents don't tend to like the idea of letting their kids running around the neighborhood. The way those well off enough like to reconcile this with balanced lifestyle is overschedule activities for their kids. They get ze dezignated social time at hockey, soccer, karate every other night. Busy-ing a kid's life has its own pitfalls.
Re:Screen time: how much is too much?
by crooked-v on Thursday January 17, 2019 @04:19PM
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Treating it as an intentional choice is ignoring all the cases of "parent gets investigated or arrested for allowing child outside".
https://people.com/parents/mom-investigated-dcfs-letting-dau...
https://www.parenting.com/blogs/show-and-tell/hayley-parenti...
https://www.theatlantic.com/national/archive/2014/07/arreste...
Re:Screen time: how much is too much?
by andersonvom on Thursday January 17, 2019 @04:54PM
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That's "inside-out" helicopter parenting, where someone else is being the helicopter, not the parent. Kudos to Utah and their "free-range parenting" laws: https://www.nytimes.com/2018/03/29/well/family/utah-passes-f...
Re:Screen time: how much is too much?
by lowercased on Friday January 18, 2019 @01:18PM
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Local business owner was telling me that police showed up at her business with her 9 year old because the 9 year old was "out on her own". He was walking from the local business to their house, about ... 8 blocks from the business. It's a smallish town (40,000 population, but in this 'old town district', maybe 2-3000?). Police brought the kid back to the business and chastised the business owner, intimating that letting her kid walk home unattended was in violation of some law. She asked for the specific law, which pissed off the officer to no end (because there isn't one here).
What's bizarre is that the cop was probably allowed to do the same as a child.
Re:Screen time: how much is too much?
by lowercased on Friday January 18, 2019 @02:47PM
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Yeah! Certainly in my day (which wasn't that long ago!) we ... walked everywhere (or rode a bike) as a kid.
There is safety in numbers; parents will let their kids go out to play when there are other kids around. And depending on where you go in the country, you'll see groups of kids playing or you won't. But it's self feeding, as fewer kids play outside, fewer parents let their kids play outside. My kid has no reason to go outside if there is nobody out there.