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Re:Ask HN: I think I want a divorce by bengunnink on Wednesday January 16, 2019 @11:50AM (#18922391)
Don't ask the peanut gallery. Go see a marriage counselor.
Re:Ask HN: I think I want a divorce by throwawayIn2019 on Thursday January 17, 2019 @05:44AM (#18929788)
A marriage counselor is just one person. The peanut gallery is more people giving advice from different perspectives.
Re:Ask HN: I think I want a divorce by bengunnink on Thursday January 17, 2019 @10:07AM (#18931251)
A marriage counselor is someone who is trained in dealing with your particular problem.

Would you walk into, say, a car dealership and ask for programming advice? Or would you talk to someone who programs for a living?

Re:Ask HN: I think I want a divorce by throwawayIn2019 on Thursday January 17, 2019 @10:23AM (#18931400)
I totally see your point.

Technically if you asked enough car dealerships the same question you will get a mixture of right and wrong. If you ask just one you get just one answer, is it right or wrong?

I think your main point of seeing one is valid. We should consider doing that.