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Re:Ask HN: How do you motivate yourself to keep working on a... by natpalmer1776 on Monday January 14, 2019 @12:29PM (#18904624)
I'm 22 with a spouse and newborn son. I have to say that this has done more for my emotional and professional development than anything else could have at this point in my life.

Knowing my son will indirectly inherit my own habits has me focusing a lot on my productivity and accountability.

Re:Ask HN: How do you motivate yourself to keep working on a... by johndubchak on Monday January 14, 2019 @01:00PM (#18904867)
Enjoy your son, he will grow so fast. Spend moments you have with him totally focused on him, not on how to teach him to be productive, at least not in his early years. Teach him to explore, be curious and to love life. Productivity will come.
Re:Ask HN: How do you motivate yourself to keep working on a... by natpalmer1776 on Monday January 14, 2019 @01:12PM (#18904967)
This is why I wrote 'indirectly'

The most valuable thing I can give him is passion. It's not my responsibility to direct it towards a preferred venue, rather to expose him to the world in a safe way that allows him to explore what makes him happy.

Accountability and candidness allows people to trust in you and forms the foundation of good leadership. Productivity allows one to drive their efforts towards their passion into tangible product or work produced.

If he can create value and convince others that he is consistent in his beliefs, then it is my hope that the world will allow him to grow to his fullest potential.

It's my hope that by observation of some of these core values being actively expressed by my own actions, it will make it easier for him to adopt them as he matures.