I've been to Orador Sur Glane. The 'ambiance' is strange, like visiting some of the bigger war memorials in northern France, but with rusted prams still lying about etc.

This differs from what I heard, and the wikipedia article. The women and children burned to death in the church. The men in the barns.

Edit: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oradour-sur-Glane_massacre