Money can't buy happiness. Money can free up your time to explore enriching endeavours. A windfall should be a gateway to really explore what the world has to offer without limitations.
My top things that I would do in this situation:
- Make sure my debts are paid, and ensure long term stable income
- 1 hour minimum workout every day
- Be outside as much as possible
- Learn new applicable skills (home or auto repair, woodworking, music, etc...)
- Possibly go back to school
- Play video games
- Read more
These are all things that I try to do now, but don't have the time because of work or debt.
Totally. No need to carry a car loan, mortgage, Credit card debt anything anymore.
Add in a lump sum for the monthly utilities for a decade and make a house account. Have the house account pay all these other incidentals from that account which you otherwise ignore.
Then, anytime you look at your bank account, the future costs of living in that home are never reflected in the balance you see in your daily account(s)
I would avoid material intensive Hobbies where you can buy accomplishment.
Unfortunately I am not in a similar situation but if I was I would try to maybe put some effort in to being healthy and not just focusing on beeing stimulated constantly. You can afford taking it slow, give it a try.