Not if they have ADHD. Then they often can't focus on things they want to focus on for their own reasons.
A lot of things that people with ADHD would like to do include boring parts if you want to get good at them. Practicing scales three hours a day, or whatever.
Ding ding ding, winner. You know what sucks? Not being physically capable of paying enough attention to a piece of paperwork to be sure you've read all the instructions right and spelled everything perfectly and copied over every number with no transcription errors. Even when you desperately want to be able to focus that hard on anything in your life. Now take that and apply it to programming, watching TV, finishing video games so you get the whole story, remembering your SO's favorite things... Yeah.
I wonder if anyone has studied whether ADHD rates are influenced at all by type of schooling. I'd love to know whether KIPP (which is very heavy on "sit and focus") or Montessori (which isn't) have particularly different rates of ADHD diagnosis for their students.
Could go either way. Maybe focus is a skill that can be learned, and by drilling it you would reduce rates of ADHD? Maybe focusing is annoying, and if kids have to do it too often, they'll stop wanting to learn or focus on anything? Or maybe it's mostly biological or chemical, and the rates would be roughly the same?
I don't strongly share your intuitions, but I'd absolutely support someone giving a shot at testing the impact of schooling type on ADHD rates, validating you if your intuitions are right, or just adding more information if you aren't.
People like you are why I went undiagnosed until I was 27. Everyone around me thought that I just needed to focus harder and take better notes and get some exercise. Hell, I thought those things too, which meant I was dealing with burnout and depression on top of everything else. It ruined grad school and it's going to take me decades to catch up with my life goals. You should find a way to contribute that doesn't involve sweeping generalities that make it impossible for people with real problems to realize that they have them.
You think that me arguing for more free play for 4–8 year olds makes it impossible for adults with ADHD to realize they “have real problems”?
You think it would have made your life significantly better if teachers had started medicating you at age 6 and forced you to spend more time memorizing spelling lists or whatever?
I’m not talking about people in grad school here. Or even high school.
For whatever it is worth: I am 32, and have undiagnosed ADHD, probably more extreme than yours.
Also, while there are some shitty schools with "forcing small children to sit and focus on unmotivated externally assigned busywork while being passively monitored by a stressed out and outnumbered authority figure", ADHD happen in non shitty ones.
When kids universally hate the school and there are problems with everyone then it is one thing. When there are few kids who behave differently then other kids, then we maybe should accept that there is something different about them. Because that is the thing - many many kids like to go to school at that age. Or are indifferent to school. Or don't like it, but don't have problem to sit while class is going on. And some kids have problem to control their behavior regardless of whether they like the school, teacher and other kids.
Op wasn't describing shitty schools. He was just describing schools.
If you think that it's significantly affecting your quality of life and none of your existing coping strategies are helping - which is the actual definition of "severity", by the way, not anything about how much you think your brain sucks - you should talk to a competent doctor and/or counselor or therapist. Medical professionals have access to far better ways to address real neurological problems than you can get hold of, ranging from referrals to specialists that work 8-hour days helping people test coping strategies to medication that will directly address the underlying cause to simply being able to approach the problem with a calibrated idea of what "normal" is and deal with it with a brain that isn't affected by the problem. They can probably help you keep your job or your marriage or whatever else it is that's continuously at risk of being derailed and collapsing around you.
Yes, I know that it's hard to do. It's hard to remember to make phone calls while businesses are open. It's hard to remember when you have appointments. I know that paperwork is terrifying. It sucks. It gets better if you do it and get help. Get a good friend to sit down and help you do it. Seriously, not having gone to the doctor in years because you couldn't pull together the functional executive capacity to deal with analysis paralysis when you search for "primary care providers $mycity" is unhealthy in a ton of ways. Just call one at random. At worst you'll pick a terrible doctor and have to try again. Get friends to help. They're not crippled like you are.
(Though, if I'm going to be honest, I will say that someone self-diagnosing severe ADHD in a thread about overdiagnosis of ADHD is hilariously ironic. Nothing says that the office lifestyle is any better for adults than it is for children, after all. Go read Dilbert or watch The Office or something, we're just as bad at handling it in cubicles as we are at our assigned seats in history class! Get some fresh air, go hiking on the weekends, get your macros right and lose 20 pounds. /s)
> You think it would have made your life significantly better if teachers had started medicating you at age 6 and forced you to spend more time memorizing spelling lists or whatever?
I did perfectly well on spelling tests and homework and projects during school. In fact, I barely needed to "study" anything at all. Maintained a high A all the way through to the end of my undergraduate. It just turned out that the month-long and semester-long projects sharply limited the scope of the careless mistakes I'd make that would, on real-life-sized projects, cascade into crippling architectural issues. So I just figured I needed to work harder (because "smart people don't work hard") and take better notes and pay more attention to the big picture. And I burned out catastrophically. Those problems all went away overnight when I finally managed to talk to a doctor about it. It was magical. I have so far not been able to identify any side effects rising above the noise floor.
So, based on the side effects and benefits of medication so far, yes, I actually really would have liked to have had it earlier. At least ten years earlier. I'd have spent exactly as much time studying - i.e. none - gotten back the 10% of my grade that I usually spent misreading the fucking question, been able to handle personal projects big enough that I'd have been able to get real practice with project management and software architecture, and gotten papers out of the research projects I was involved with during my undergraduate. I'd have been able to go to the doctor reliably and avoid the stress and wasted time I spent dealing with carelessly fucked-up paperwork. And that all would have compounded on itself to improve my life exactly the way the failures compounded the way it actually happened. If I'd had this shit ten years ago I'd probably have my fucking PhD right now and be working on getting tenure, which is what people were expecting when I was in second grade.
Beyond any difficulties with controlling attention, I think this has a lot to do with lack of practice with large (and “real”) projects, ramping up in scope and scale slowly over the course of years. This is a big problem with the school curriculum/pedagogy, IMO.
Many people I know working in creative jobs (computer programming and otherwise) have various problems with large-scale project management, long-term problem solving strategies, etc., plenty of which have nothing to do with ADHD.
Now, I'm not saying that nobody has ADHD and that it's not a horrible problem for those who do. Sometimes, I really do wonder if I might have it, though I tend to think against it. But for those who truly do have ADHD, I understand that medicine is needed, and that the sooner we give it, the better off those students can learn. I just feel that OP was saying we test for it way too young, and expect way too much out of kids when testing for it.
There needs to be a balance between free play and structured learning, where the youngest students spend more time in free play than older students. The primary function of school is learning, and learning is often very structured time. Children need to be able to handle that type of environment.
Why?
Are you serious? You think that young children don’t learn from free play? What in the world is your definition of “learning”?
> how much the teacher needs to [..] test for
Oh I see. You mean “learning” as judged exclusively by standardized multiple-choice tests.
Well fine, it’s not exactly surprising that if we force children to spend 5+ hours per day sitting in rows in desks working independently filling out busywork worksheets or watching teachers solve similar trivial exercises on a whiteboard, they will be better at doing the same thing for arbitrary test points than someone who hasn’t spent any time practicing that, even if both kids think the test is a pointless waste of time.... but that doesn’t really indicate anything at all about children’s abilities more generally.
If we instead measured the kids’ balance, strength, running speed, hand-eye coordination, intuitive understanding of physics, ability to improvise mechanical devices from found objects, knowledge of local plants and animals, emotional self-understanding and self-control, negotiation and bargaining skills, social organization/leadership, .... we would find that the professional worksheet-fillers are years behind their playing peers.
Some of the most capable (even at book-smarts) people I ever met were absolutely horrid throughout school, but then did amazing things after. Others never went to school at all and still did amazing things. Others I know aced every test right up through college, and then had no idea what to do afterward, because they had never really been forced to think for themselves.
Getting children to be as successful as possible at multiple-choice tests at age 8 is not a good top priority for the education system.
For many the “actual underlying problem” is that forcing small children to sit and focus on unmotivated externally assigned busywork while being passively monitored by a stressed out and outnumbered authority figure is a cruel waste of time. Many of the same kids would be just fine if their day consisted primarily of free play, especially outdoors.