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Re:How to Talk to People, According to Terry Gross by JumpCrisscross on Saturday November 24, 2018 @04:36AM (#18521257)
> It's all too easy to say 'what do you do?'

Interestingly, not everyone answers "tell me about yourself" with "what do you do." How someone parses the former can actually be more interesting than the answer itself. For example, some people answer with their family, their country of origin, their company (versus profession), their title (versus company), a description of their role, or–quite plainly–discomfort. (Crudely, I've noticed peoples' enjoyment with this question roughly correlates with their social competence, perceive social status and general curiosity about people. New Yorkers answer with a profession. Europeans, more frequently, with a town of origin. The oddest pattern I picked up on was in Montreal, where I kept getting a detailed description of what the person did or ate that day.)

It's also fun watching yourself answer the question, particularly when your parsing varies given the company you're with or context you're in.

Re:How to Talk to People, According to Terry Gross by vibrolax on Saturday November 24, 2018 @11:55AM (#18522837)
I'm a recent anglophone immigrant to Québec, currently midway through my francisation program. We spend a huge amount of time learning to converse with others about our daily routine, meals, etc. I wondered if the emphasis on these subjects was simply because everyone eats, or if there was a deeper cultural reason.