Merely pointing out that any transaction involves a transfer, and your claim that some transactions are worse because someone has less money at the end of it, is perhaps missing the point.
Unless the people you were dealing with both went into the deal knowing which one would lose money - then it's comparable to your 'placing a bet' analogy.
Sure, I'm not doubting that it was (probably) ethically dubious - and kudos for not participating in that industry any longer.
As to:
> If I give somebody $10 for a sandwich, I didn't lose the money. I traded it for something more valuable.
- that's clearly not true.
You have ten fewer dollars than you did before the transaction.
Whether it's more valuable to you is very much subjective, though if you asked someone if they'd prefer $10 or a sandwich, most people would say the $10.
Between $100 and ten sandwiches, I'd suggest all would choose the money.
Conflating 'winners' with who came out ahead in terms of self-assessed value proposition of a particular transaction is to also miss the point.
> We turned a profit by being smarter or faster or luckier than the people we traded with.
This is the essence of trade.
I would say it depends on whether I'm hungry or not.
Parent was asserting a perishable item is inherently more valuable than the means to purchase same.
What? You literally did say that:
> I traded it [$10] for something more valuable [a sandwich].
When two parties make a bet, though, one of them loses and one of them wins. The losing side doesn't say, "That's great because I now have this cup of coffee I value more." They just write it off as a loss.
When I worked for prop trading firms, in every trade we did one side of a trade won and the other lost. In working for real businesses, both sides of a trade mostly walk away winners. Hopefully this difference is clear to you; it's that distinction I was pointing at.
If you're trying to make some sort of narrow point about my use of the colloquial phrases "made money" and "lost money", I grant that I was indeed being colloquial. Strictly speaking, we also didn't actually make money; I am told only the Federal Reserve gets to make new dollars.