Re:Ask HN: How to deal with incompetent people
by jonbronson on Tuesday November 20, 2018 @11:42AM
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Stupidity and malice can often be two sides of the same coin. I once worked with an individual who shot down a project idea, but then executed it in secret for two weeks before revealing it as his pet project. After confronting him, he initially did not understand why this was deceitful. It took 3-4 conversations before he finally understood and sincerely apologized. He felt he was simply being competitive and that everyone did these types of things.
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Re:Ask HN: How to deal with incompetent people
by ownagefool on Tuesday November 20, 2018 @01:12PM
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My work buddy did this.
I'm pretty sure this was simply because he thought it couldn't be done, and I just put the niggling thought in his mind so he tried and was successful.
Weirdly enough he was the introvert and I less so, and I got the promotion. No hard feelings on either end, as far as I know. We all have our quirks.