I'm pretty immersed in communities and private circles that contain a lot of people who self identify using the term "red pill", and I think her characterization is reasonable. If 90% of "red pill" sentiment matches her definition, then that sentiment becomes representative, even if the 10% rejects it. It's an unfortunate but unavoidable part of human society. As for your characterization of her, it may be rooted in something rational for all I know about this woman, but you've expressed it in a spiteful, curt way.