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Re:How Bad Is It to Forget Someone's Name? by iambateman on Saturday October 13, 2018 @01:45PM (#18209106)
I forget and “re-meet” people regularly.

A few years ago, I picked up a habit I saw Michelle Obama use: she says “nice to see you” instead of “nice to meet you.”

The phrase feels warm and appropriate to new folks, but keeps the ones I’ve met before from feeling forgotten.

Re:How Bad Is It to Forget Someone's Name? by MisterOctober on Saturday October 13, 2018 @02:25PM (#18209288)
Yepyepyepyep -- I struggle mightily with this phenomenon and some time ago adopted the above practice [except my variant is 'good to see you'; my farewell is 'see you later / see you around' for consistency].

Has saved me a hella ton of aggravation and worrying.

edit : if I know from context that I've met someone before but don't recognize them / remember name, I just come right out and admit it straight away : "Hi! We met before but I've forgotten your name, sorry -- what is it?"

Re:How Bad Is It to Forget Someone's Name? by netsharc on Saturday October 13, 2018 @03:29PM (#18209581)
Apparently "nice to see you" is a Hollywood thing, I remember a guest (an actor) on a talk show saying "I hate when people say that, it's so phony!"
Re:How Bad Is It to Forget Someone's Name? by joncrane on Saturday October 13, 2018 @08:28PM (#18210714)
Ha ha I thought it was a Washington DC thing, where politicians and important people are constantly meeting lots of people so it's a good weasel word.
Re:How Bad Is It to Forget Someone's Name? by BurpIntruder on Saturday October 13, 2018 @02:28PM (#18209305)
I go with, "What's your name again?". When they tell me their first name, I say, "No sorry, I meant your last name?".

Works every time.

Re:How Bad Is It to Forget Someone's Name? by 121789 on Saturday October 13, 2018 @02:29PM (#18209317)
No it doesn’t. Everyone with a mild bit of common sense knows what you’re doing
Re:How Bad Is It to Forget Someone's Name? by drb91 on Saturday October 13, 2018 @02:31PM (#18209324)
What, they refuse to answer? How rude.
Re:How Bad Is It to Forget Someone's Name? by b_tterc_p on Saturday October 13, 2018 @02:38PM (#18209354)
They’ll play along, but be aware that not only have you forgotten their name, you also believe you can fool them into thinking you didn’t
Re:How Bad Is It to Forget Someone's Name? by kakarot on Saturday October 13, 2018 @08:17PM (#18210682)
Yeah it's double patronizing. It's worse than just coming clean and shifting the burden to yourself by acknowledging your poor memory skills.
Re:How Bad Is It to Forget Someone's Name? by coldtea on Saturday October 13, 2018 @05:01PM (#18210000)
The goals wasn't to relearn their name, but to relearn it while not showing that you forget it. The latter part is what fails...
Re:How Bad Is It to Forget Someone's Name? by yjftsjthsd-h on Saturday October 13, 2018 @04:06PM (#18209749)
As rude as lying to save face?
Re:How Bad Is It to Forget Someone's Name? by drb91 on Saturday October 13, 2018 @04:56PM (#18209985)
The lie would be for the benefit of the person whose name was forgotten, not to "save face". From what, forgetting a name? Nothing is more human.

I do agree that to lie at all is a terrible idea.

Re:How Bad Is It to Forget Someone's Name? by PakG1 on Saturday October 13, 2018 @08:02PM (#18210642)
Now I'm curious. If lying in general is a terrible idea, how does the person whose name was forgotten benefit, otherwise what makes the terrible lie worth it?
Re:How Bad Is It to Forget Someone's Name? by drb91 on Sunday October 14, 2018 @01:29PM (#18213998)
White lies are confusing things.
Re:How Bad Is It to Forget Someone's Name? by oh_sigh on Saturday October 13, 2018 @06:27PM (#18210351)
Why would you be asking what someone's last name is, especially by asking "what's your name again?"
Re:How Bad Is It to Forget Someone's Name? by dj43nq on Saturday October 13, 2018 @11:35PM (#18211221)
Neat trick but it shouldn't be the only one you have. Which is to say it isn't the best way to proceed.