I have kids and down-voted your comment. Simply because a person has (or might have) the capacity for working overtime doesn't mean this should be a requirement. We're employees, not slaves.
Thats not what I meant - the OP stated "I dont have kids and I want to be able to work overtime and focus on a project" -- so, my comment was "well if you dont have kids, you should be better able to work overtime and focus on a project"
That’s really interesting. Reading the OP's post:
> I <...> would like to be able to not be stressed and work overtime and solve hard technical problems and move towards a more rewarding job
I cannot tell whether he is saying he would like to be able to work overtime, or whether he doesn't want to <be stressed and> work overtime. I would assume, "work overtime" has a tighter coupling with the preceding "not" than with the preceding "would like to", but can't tell for sure.
You have no kids... You can work overtime and do anything you want when you want with respect to working and focusing on work without kids.
I'll assume those downvoting this comment dont have kids.