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Re:Millennials Are Causing the U.S. Divorce Rate to Plummet by mikeash on Friday September 28, 2018 @11:23AM (#18094128)
Sex before marriage was pretty common before. It just got covered up. There were a whole lot of extremely “premature” babies being somehow born at a healthy weight, but this only ever happened with a couple’s first child.

These days, pretty much the only people who never have sex before marriage are religious extremists. Those people also tend to believe that you can be tortured for eternity if you get a divorce, which probably reduces the incidence somewhat.

Re:Millennials Are Causing the U.S. Divorce Rate to Plummet by mkaziz on Friday September 28, 2018 @11:30AM (#18094186)
> These days, pretty much the only people who never have sex before marriage are religious extremists

That's an incredibly ignorant and inflammatory thing to say.

Re:Millennials Are Causing the U.S. Divorce Rate to Plummet by monocasa on Friday September 28, 2018 @11:55AM (#18094414)
Nah, it's pretty much true, as someone from the bible belt even.

Hell, it was always true. The point of a diamond on the engagement ring was because it was assumed that you had kicked the tires on that part of the relationship, and the engagement fell through, then that woman had something she could sell as a nest egg for her new life as a forever alone spinster, being the 'broken woman' that she was.

Re:Millennials Are Causing the U.S. Divorce Rate to Plummet by taeric on Friday September 28, 2018 @12:06PM (#18094517)
I think this is assuming diamonds are a long held tradition. Pretty sure that is a rather heavy fabrication.
Re:Millennials Are Causing the U.S. Divorce Rate to Plummet by monocasa on Friday September 28, 2018 @12:43PM (#18094779)
Well, all traditions are heavy fabrications.

As far as diamond engagement rings are concerned, it's about a century old tradition at this point, so four or five generations. That's a pretty long time for the purposes of this discussion.

And this comes form someone who didn't get their fiancée a diamond ring for various reasons.

Re:Millennials Are Causing the U.S. Divorce Rate to Plummet by taeric on Friday September 28, 2018 @12:50PM (#18094854)
Agreed to an extent. I posit they probably aren't 4/5 generations of actual traditional usage yet. Most folks great grandparents probably did not have diamond rings.

I should also have said this was more a side comment. I don't think it detracted from the overall point made earlier.

Re:Millennials Are Causing the U.S. Divorce Rate to Plummet by make3 on Friday September 28, 2018 @01:02PM (#18094952)
I really don't think it is, though I guess most religious extremists don't see themselves as such
Re:Millennials Are Causing the U.S. Divorce Rate to Plummet by DonHopkins on Friday September 28, 2018 @03:43PM (#18096429)
"You shouldn't have sex before marriage" is an incredibly ignorant and inflammatory thing to say.