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Re:How to Be Better at Parties by finaliteration on Wednesday September 12, 2018 @11:58AM (#17970097)
I’ve always hated them, even before the Internet was huge. I’m a fairly social person and I’m okay in crowds, but once the number of people I’m trying to interact with exceeds ~10 it’s just too much for me.

The worst are work “parties” and happy hours where everyone feels forced to go, no meaningful team building really happens, and the cliques in a company become more evident and visible.

Plus I’ve lost some hearing due to one too many loud metal shows, so party conversation is pretty stressful.

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Re:How to Be Better at Parties by dsfyu404ed on Wednesday September 12, 2018 @12:26PM (#17970381)
>no meaningful team building really happens, and the cliques in a company become more evident and visible.

Are your work parties dry?

I work at BigCo we have a monthly "free beer and pizza" on our floor and it's the great at getting people to meet each other and de-siloing.

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Re:How to Be Better at Parties by finaliteration on Wednesday September 12, 2018 @12:34PM (#17970481)
> Are your work parties dry?

They aren’t but it still ends up being the same people grouping up and talking to each other. Maybe it’s the company culture but it makes the whole affair feel pretty uninviting.

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