Re:How to Make a Big Decision
by mongol on Wednesday September 05, 2018 @06:50AM
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Yes the coin thing is really good. If you want to flip again, then you know what option you prefer.
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I have written a bit about this matter, from the point of view of using I-Ching as your "decision support tool"... https://www.pa-mar.net/Lifestyle/I-Ching.html
Thanks. I find it funny that some people who consider themselves rational and open minded are very easily discarding methods like this as superstition without hearing out what you actually have to say.
I believe Tarot cards are a somewhat similar way of gaining understanding of your own preferences.
In my opinion yes, any kind of oracle that gives you ambiguous answers is more or less equivalent: I Ching for me is convenient because it gives a relatively compact result (while doing tarot reading requires you to pore over a dozen or so cards and all their relationships, which to me risks to muddle things up).
I always give myself five minutes in which I can flip the coin as many times as I like, but at the end of that I have to go with the face that's showing. It's pretty interesting - I find myself hesitating when it's showing one face more and more. I'm sure part of it is just reinforcing an initial bias once I notice my own hesitation, but magnifying an existing bias is after all the point of the exercise.
>If you want to flip again, then you know what option you prefer.
Nope.
Of course if you see A coming originally and don't want to flip again, then we know that you're OK with A.
But if you do want to flip again, then you just know that you don't prefer A -- you can't deduce from that that you want B.
You can still:
(a) prefer B (b) dislike both
I see this judging Magic: the Gathering a lot. Players will sit there staring at their hand, mulling over various options, all of them bad. And they hesitate to make a play because once they make a play, bad stuff happens. They're constantly trying to convince themselves there's another "good" option if they just stare at their cards long enough.
Nope. All your choices are bad. Make a play.
I think this is a great point generally. People are frequently forced into making one of a number of bad choices. Human circumstance almost always gives us that problem. It is in those situations where “trying to be strategic” really holds us up. Sometimes, things suck in the short run and have no long term value either. I think acknowledging this is why some people can make snap judgements in that situation while others sit in denial.