What did look like dictatorship to me was a prince tearing up a government ordinance and the poor PM running around trying to appease him. Or a queen pulling strings from behind with her own unaccountable "cabinet" - the NAC. Or the parcelling out of government departments among partners to loot the country. That is as low as it can get.
The huge NPA crisis that you see now happened under his watch. The Air India deal, the 2G scam etc etc. It is conveniently forgotten for example, that under Manmohan Singh in 2010 the congress government declared that more bank licenses will be given out, flatly contradicting the RBI whose job it is to issue these licenses.
By the standards we are holding this government to, almost any government prior to this would be called a dictatorship.
Did your banker friend tell you that most people in queue were not millionaires but laborers and mostly people who didn't even fall under a tax bracket.
Did he tell you people couldn't withdraw money for months? Their own hard earned money. Not govt money, their own hard earned white money was locked up in banks.
RBI governor wasn't even in support of this decision so he was kicked out. Like how low can all this really get?
Doesn't all this sound like a dictatorship to you?