So yes, it's the expectation of the courts that people will continually monitor granted patents and appeal them as necessary. And I guess patent applications as well.
I dunno about that. My sense is that a patent owner's counsel would not try to argue that the accused infringer had a general duty to monitor pending applications or issued patents. The argument would be, instead, that the circumstances suggest that the prior art in question wasn't so good after all.
Keep in mind that jurors are usually non-technical. Therefore, patent litigators try hard to find understandable indirect- or circumstantial evidence that can get the message across to the jurors. EXAMPLE: If someone walks into the courtroom in a dripping-wet raincoat, that's indirect evidence of rain. EXAMPLE: Widespread imitation of an invention, or praise for it, is regarded as indirect evidence of nonobviousness.
In this hypothetical, the patent owner's counsel argues that the defendant's failure to bring the supposedly-killer prior art to the attention of the patent examiner is indirect evidence. Of what? That the prior art wasn't so good after all, and that the defendant is trying to put one over on the jurors.
The insidiousness of ignorance...
At the margin that's indeed a concern.
Many patent attorneys think, however, that --
A) On average you're likely to get a better take on patentability from an examiner, who has at least some background in the technology and who doesn't have a presumption of validity to overcome;
B) Suppose you have prior art that you think invalidates the claims of a patent application, but you withhold it from the patent applicant in hopes of using it later on as a defense in infringement litigation. The patent owner's trial counsel is likely to argue to the jury that your actions then speak louder than your words now. "If the prior art was so great," counsel will argue, "why didn't they give it to the patent applicant to be forwarded to the patent examiner? They're just trying to pull the wool over your eyes, and making you do extra work evaluating this supposedly-great prior art reference, when they could have saved you the trouble by having the examiner look at it in the first place."