Similar to an alcoholic finding comfort in Alcoholics Anonymous, I would love to find someone who has been lifelong obese who has shed the pounds for more than a year.
Do you mean that it is wasting a doctors time because they don't owe me motivation? I am talking about my obesity specialists. They are giving me diets and exercise plans that I am doing. I don't feel like I am not trying.
Do you mean that I am not trying because I am not successful?
With respect to doctors and motivation though, do you think that I should not ask them for success stories?
I understand that you're saying that the doctor can't do anything if I'm so lazy that I find excuses all the time, but I don't feel like I have ever given a doctor an excuse. I feel like doctors give me excuses constantly about their success rates.
From my perspective, if they give the same advice to 100,000 people and of them they have 0 successful treatments by their own data, I'm going to assume I should find other advice
Do you mean I'm wasting their time because it's not their responsibility to know if they have had successes? Or because it's my fault for eating too much when I could decide not to?
I'm honestly asking this, please don't take this as an attack. I am very curious as to your thoughts about doctors.
I'm generally asking because I am hopeful that they provide me with a motivation to believe that someone else has done what they're asking me to do.