My main point is not to get emotional over a job or your relationship with the company or your coworkers. I’m not saying that building professional relationships with your coworkers is unimportant, it’s the most important type of influence you have in the company.
As far as him “becoming a stakeholder through bonuses and commissions”, I agree. If they value him, they will place a monetary amount on that value....
You will know if they feel you are a “valued member of the team” when you get your annual raise. People pay for what they value.
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What's more I don't see how this comment answers op's question? Your general advice seems to be "just do not do it"?
Other people had already posted good advice about how to ask. I’m giving the suggestion on what to do if it doesn’t work.
I’ve been cited as being “contrarian” before so this is another example I guess.....
https://hired.com/blog/candidates/hackernews-discusses-asses...
On the other hand, if you start interviewing after a year, what’s the harm? There are only two outcomes. You won’t find a job until year two and you won’t be considered a “job hopper” or you will and it doesn’t matter.
IF someone is unchallenged as you imply I'd say a good first step would be to talk to your superior before following a generic "change company every two years" advice for no reason.
There are switching costs to changing jobs (https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=17796166), but statistically, job switchers make more than people who stay (https://www.fastcompany.com/3055035/you-should-plan-on-switc...)
What's more I don't see how this comment answers op's question? Your general advice seems to be "just do not do it"?